Victoria’s Accessible Living Transition 

Sometimes you find yourself afforded with a flurry of opportunities–graduate school, research studies, published journal articles, conference presentations, strategic committees. I’ve been grateful to pursue so many things! It’s more than I ever expected…and so is the toll it took on my health.

Over the course of 2023, I managed something like monthly updates on how I’ve been doing. Moving forward, my reflections will come in different ways. My reality is ever-shifting, which is something I thought would change once I “grew up”. Joke’s on me–turns out adults don’t actually get their way all the time!

I am immeasurably grateful for the community that has supported me on this journey. My heartfelt thanks to everyone who has sent me cards, texts, and well-wishes. It means more than you know!

A Roller Coaster of Changes

How You Can Help

I Had to Be There

To meet people? As myself? Fully and truly? Turns out…I can do that. I need to do that.

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When All the World is Midnight

Two years, ten days, and a whole lot of starting over. I’m not as good as new, but I’m the same as ever in all the ways that matter.

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It’s Been A Transition

Dinner with an old friend who I met on the eve of my body telling me in no uncertain terms it was quitting…and the harmony in reuniting after the dust has mostly settled from that raging disaster of an existence I was barely managing to maintain.

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Care That Counts

For anyone wondering how to support this Black Disabled Queer, the answers are simpler than you might think.

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All For…What?

What difference does a year make? How much can a decade dismantle? I don’t have answers, but I know I’m still here.

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